9 Months Today

This is it.

Today is my 9 month check-up.

I have mixed emotions.  Which roller-coaster out of control at times.

This is it.

I hear the verdict this afternoon.

Nothing will change but my awareness of “it”.

Yet – everything will change.

If I am still in remission, I will bike this summer.

If I am not in remission, I will be in seclusion once again.

If I am in remission, I will continue to be involved with my son’s volleyball.

If I am not, I will stay home.

If I am in remission, I will have lunch with my daughter.

If I am not, I will miss our conversations.

If I am in remission, I will embrace my eldest boy as he comes home to visit.

If I am not, I will offer him a high-five.

If I am in remission, I will continue to walk with my husband in the morning, play golf this summer, and kayak with him.

If I am not, I will walk and sleep.

I will lead a life that takes me away from people.

But I will have a shot at life.

I will lead a life that slows me down from doing the fun things I love to do.

But I will have a shot at life.

I have lived 9 months longer than I thought I would.  For that I am so grateful.  During those 9 months, I have grown a faith, a family, a home.  It takes 9 months for a fetus to develop into a baby – to be born and face the world.  Maybe these past 9 months have been my development too.  Am I ready to face the “verdict” today?

I have a life.  I have hope.  I have faith.

I need to accept my fate.

Remission or not.

This is it.

About inmycorner

This blog began as an opportunity to tell my Dad's stories. I sat with him and the computer and together we told stories. It was a wonderful way to get to know Dad. He was 9. He and Mom had a wonderful life together and since she passed away a year and a half before him - Dad was ready to join her. I no longer tell his stories but have found stories of my own. The impetus to resume this blog was the discovery that I had stage 4 ovarian cancer. Since blogging had been so therapeutic for my dad and I to get through our grief, I felt maybe this would be a good outlet to process my situation. I also hoped it may serve as an outreach to anyone else who is facing this very ominous journey. So far, so good.
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13 Responses to 9 Months Today

  1. sharechair says:

    Thinking of you and sending all the positive thoughts I can muster!!!!

  2. Gwen K says:

    Fingers crossed and prayers sent that the verdict is positive.

  3. Stacey….<3 Prayers. Thoughts. Hope.

  4. Gallivanta says:

    Sending every good wish.

  5. pepe says:

    All the best Stacey and praying for you..!!

  6. tessie says:

    Faith prayers and trust in God will save you

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