Round and round

“Mom, I don’t know what to do with myself.  I want to do – but I don’t have the energy.”

“Just rest, Stacey.  Read a book.”

“I don’t really feel like reading a book – I’d rather be in my garden.”

“Then, go into your garden.”

“I don’t have the energy.”

“Then rest.”

“I don’t want to rest.  I want to do.”

“Stacey, you need to be patient.”

“I know.  I don’t like it.  I’m frustrated that I don’t want to stay in – but I don’t want to go out.  It is so nice outside I feel I should be outside.”

“Then, go outside and sit in the chair.”

“But I don’t want to just sit.  sigh.  I don’t know what I want.”

“Your body needs rest.  When you have a rest, you’ll feel better.”

“I know.”

“You have been through a lot.  You cannot push.”

“I know.”

“It will take time before you recover.  In time, you will regain your strength and you will want to do things again.”

“I know, Mom.  I know you are right.  It’s frustrating. I feel well enough that I know that I want to do something, but not well enough to actually do it.  I feel like the buds on those trees – they want to burst out but won’t until conditions are ready.  They have so much potential and yet, they wait.”

“I know, Stacey.  I know.”

“Yes, Mom, I believe you do.”

About inmycorner

This blog began as an opportunity to tell my Dad's stories. I sat with him and the computer and together we told stories. It was a wonderful way to get to know Dad. He was 9. He and Mom had a wonderful life together and since she passed away a year and a half before him - Dad was ready to join her. I no longer tell his stories but have found stories of my own. The impetus to resume this blog was the discovery that I had stage 4 ovarian cancer. Since blogging had been so therapeutic for my dad and I to get through our grief, I felt maybe this would be a good outlet to process my situation. I also hoped it may serve as an outreach to anyone else who is facing this very ominous journey. So far, so good.
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8 Responses to Round and round

  1. I push too hard and my body pushes back – hard! I get cocky I usually end up on my ass.

  2. kiwiskan says:

    Mom probably does – as we get older this one becomes a bit common for some of us…

  3. Gwen K says:

    Listen to your mom. Take it easy.

  4. She does know you well. 🙂

  5. Gallivanta says:

    Mum knows best. I am sure your children would agree. 😉

  6. RoSy says:

    Mom is always right. 😉

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