Post-Chemotherapy-Stress-Disorder

“I can’t find it.”

“Maybe it’s gone.”

“What do you mean?”

“I had chemo last Tuesday. Maybe the chemo killed that growth.  It’s possible right?”

“It is possible.  Maybe.  Or maybe it’s hiding behind your bowel.”

Crap.  “No, I prefer to think it’s gone.”

This is the hope I hold onto as I move through my second week of post-chemotherapy stress disorder, or PCSD for short.  I wake up and think, “I wonder if it’s gone.”  I eat breakfast and think, “I wonder if this fights cancer?”  I shower and target the heat on the would-be tumors.  I drink water and imagine it rinsing the cancer from my body.  Down the sewer pipes it goes.  I heat my food on the stove – microwaves may be bad.  An apple a day keeps the cancer away and so I eat apples.  I lay down to rest to give my immune system a chance to do its job.  These are all signs and symptoms of PCSD and I have it bad!

Not that that’s a bad thing.  It is hopeful.  It puts me shot-gun beside my chemo so that I feel I am co-piloting my recovery.

“Stacey, it’s time.  We are ready to take you for your biopsy.” said the nurses as they prepared me for surgery.  I was anxious. I had never been under the knife before.  Okay, it was not a big cut and general anesthetic I was to receive, but it may as well have been.  I tried to play it cool.

“Great – let’s go.” I said in my outside voice.  “Crap, crap, crap!” I said in my inside voice.

And away I whooshed at warp speed on my hospital stretcher.  I must confess I always wondered what it looked like from the perspective of someone who is lying down in a hospital gown being wheeled through pedestrian traffic in the hallways of RVH.  Now I know – surreal.  It’s like a shot from a GoPro – you are there, but you aren’t there.  There is no periphery, only frontal because you don’t care what’s off to the side when you need to know what you are heading into.  The nurse navigated some spectators who were probably wondering, “what is a good looking girl like that doing in a place like this”… or something like that I’m sure.  I did fix my hair that morning, after all.  And I had on clean underwear.  This was something my mother ALWAYS insisted was important and on days like that day – her advice became paramount.  There were bends and turns in the road until we came to “The Door”.  It is a little intimidating to be passing through the door with the radiation symbol on it.  I’m pretty sure I was always advised to avoid anything that had that sort of symbol on it.  Radiation is dangerous.  Right?

Through “The Door” we went and I was rolled up to a young man who looked no more than 20.  I think I lost my filter because I felt the words escape from my mouth, “Wow – you are young!”  And the game was on.

Mark, the radiologist who introduced himself by both first and last name and whose last name was so complex he said, “call me Mark” said, “How old do you think I am?”

“Geez, this biopsy is more difficult than I thought it was going to be!”  I replied.  “I didn’t know I had to answer skill-testing questions.”

“Seriously, how old do you think I am?” he chided, clearly observing my nervousness at the imminent dissection at large.

“I thought this was a woman’s game?”  I evasively suggested.

Seeing that he was not giving up, I looked at his glasses.  They were trendy and I guess of the fashion genre:  hipster.  I looked at his eyes and only slightly bashful laugh lines appeared in the corners.  I looked at his neck and it was clear.  The neck is like the rings on a tree – it tells you everything!  “You are in your 30’s.”

“High 30’s or low?”  he continued.

Geez.  He did not give up.  Nor did I notice the nurse was wheeling in the mega ultra super sonic sound machine.  “You are in your mid 30’s.”

“Not bad.  Now give me a number.”  He really must not have known how much I hate math, but I took a shot in the dark.

“You are 34.”

“Not bad.  I’m 35. Now, we are going to try to biopsy the mass in your omentum.   The jelly is cold.  Sorry.  Hmmm.  I can’t get it.  According to your CAT, it should be right here.  No, no luck.  We are going to have to take a sample from your liver.  This red dye is to steralize the area.  You will feel the needle that will numb the area and then maybe some pressure.  Deep breath in.”

“Uh-oh.  What the heck?” I thought to myself.  “What is he jamming in there” I worried.  “It feels like there is a wedge under my lung.” I panicked.

“Okay.  The needle is in and now I’m going to take a few samples.  There’s one.”

“Fire in the hole!” I yipped to myself.

“Is that okay?” he inquired.

“Go for it!” I encouraged.

“There’s two.  Let’s get another.  And “clip”, there’s three  I think that should do.”

“Snap!”  I thought.  That hurt!

“Do you feel that?”

“Yes.  But keep going.  It’s okay.”  I just wanted it to be over!

“Deep breath in…. and relax.”

“HA!  I can’t relax  – I can’t friggin’ breathe” I said to myself in my inside voice.  “Okay.”  I said in my outside voice.

Finally, the needle came out.

“Oh, good.  I thought I was going to be left permanently feeling like a wedge was stuck under my lung.”

“Ha, no Stacey.  That was just the needle I hadn’t removed until just now.  Are you okay?”

“Yes.” I affirmed.  I am relieved it is over.  “You did a good job.  Thank-you.”

“You are very welcome”  He continued talking, but I didn’t hear.  I thought I felt slightly drunk and that they must have slipped something into my while we were playing the guess-my-age game.  They hadn’t, but I wonder if the body gives something to you all on it’s own as a way to let you escape from moments like these.

I was wheeled back, once again to my little cubicle in imaging where my husband and son were waiting for me.

“How’d it go?” my husband asked.

“Good.” I responded with a slightly slower enunciation than normal.  “I was very giving.”

An hour later, I was released and wheel out, once again, but this time in a wheel chair by the hands of my oldest boy.

“They couldn’t find the mass on my omentum.” I suggested to my husband.  “Maybe it’s gone.  Or maybe it was hiding behind my bowel.  He is 35.”

“Who is 35, Stacey?” my husband inquired.

“The young man who did my biopsy.  He is 35.  Mark.  His name is Mark.  Mark my words, he was young.  He was re”Mark”able.” I continued.

My husband got the car and off we drove home. I was never so grateful to be able to crawl into my warm little bed.  I made it. We made it. Another hurdle.  I did my part.  The tears welled up in my eyes and I sobbed.

It had been more of a challenge that day than I had anticipated, but moreover, it was such a relief to have come out of the liver biopsy without incident.  No bleeding, no nausea, no vomiting.  Once again, I counted my blessings… and wondered if the cancer was all gone?  Maybe they took it all out with that sample?  What should I eat?  Should I walk?  Should I rest?  My PCSD arose once again.  But that’s a good thing!  Afterall – I am the co-pilot of my recovery and I better damned-well know the direction to “cure”.

Advertisements

About inmycorner

This blog began as an opportunity to tell my Dad's stories. I sat with him and the computer and together we told stories. It was a wonderful way to get to know Dad. He was 9. He and Mom had a wonderful life together and since she passed away a year and a half before him - Dad was ready to join her. I no longer tell his stories but have found stories of my own. The impetus to resume this blog was the discovery that I had stage 4 ovarian cancer. Since blogging had been so therapeutic for my dad and I to get through our grief, I felt maybe this would be a good outlet to process my situation. I also hoped it may serve as an outreach to anyone else who is facing this very ominous journey. So far, so good.
This entry was posted in Cancer Journey and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink.

16 Responses to Post-Chemotherapy-Stress-Disorder

  1. Stacey….you wrote this so well Igot tunnel vision and below my rib cage hurt. and I have tears in my eyes as I write this back to you. You are the co-pilot. And YOUR co-pilot is an amazing Pilot.

    • inmycorner says:

      Ha! That’s funny. i hope the tears were because you were laughing! Thanks. I guess piloting runs in the family. Dad would love to read your response to me and no doubt, would say, “You done good kid!”.

  2. Martin Langmuir says:

    looks like the steroids have worn off, PCSD is all part of the rollercoaster you are on.

  3. Dermot Mike Russell says:

    Stacey you are amazing! Your dad would be right in saying you’ve done great. You have made an imoression on so many people wehmther they be family, friends or students. I know I wouldnt be who I am today if it wasnt for having you as a teacher. The way you are coping with this is actually inspiring. You are clearly keeping your sense of humour which is fantastic. Just keep in mind through all of this that you arent alone. We are all here with you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
    You have done and you are still doing kid. Keep it up!

    Mike

    • inmycorner says:

      Thanks, Mike. I am not the same person since I met you. You impacted me too, you know. I have so appreciated that you have kept in touch. And I am so inspired by YOU. I do feel the strength of the community of supporters I have. I need them and I feed off them. THis is why I can be strong and smile in the face of adversity. Thank you for being there.

  4. Nat says:

    Dear Stacey, your blog is VERY well written. I hope you know I think of you quite often and I am cheering you on in your battle. thank you so much for sharing, lots of love, Natalie

    • inmycorner says:

      Nat – I know you are there – I have the socks to prove it! And thanks for reading the blog — it helps you to understand the details.. no ore elephants. Thanks so much for being on this journey with all of us! Love you too, Stacey

  5. hopebringsstrength says:

    Looking for opportunities that provide you with HOPE is so incredibly important, so not being able to find what they knew before was there, is FABULOUS! Believe its gone, shower it away, take care of what you put into your body and imagine starving the things that do not belong and nurturing everything else. VISUALIZE it leaving your body in any and all ways possible, whether that is through chemo, the power of positive thinking, healthy nourishment, or daily cleansing. The brain and heart working in unison are POWERFUL means in which we heal ourselves. Look for ways to smile, be grateful, and laugh till it hurts. Do not let treatments, appts, and tests steal a single moment of TODAY. Today is all we have and none of us have the promise of tomorrow, so please find joy and hope in your today. Much Love to YOU

  6. kiwiskan says:

    You write so well – I felt every step with you

  7. ludyja says:

    You write beautifully – and with your heart. While I’ve not had ovarian, I have had breast cancer – 14 years ago. So I have a taste of your journey. Hang in there. And thanks for reading my blog. It’s rather therapeutic for me, as well. Judy Wills.

    • inmycorner says:

      Thank-you for your support wrt writing. I have no craft – but I do, fortunately , have a heart. Wow – 14 years is a very wonderful outcome! Glad to hear your story is one of success – and I will hang in there — Thanks, Judy.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s